Category: Inspirational

Love

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Loves’ definition in my dictionary means that one attains the strength in seeing and making one happy and supporting oneself or a loved one to rise when they fall. Love can come in many forms, such as the love of human beings, love of self, and love of aesthetics. These forms of love can help one grow, learn to love each other, which strengthens bonds between other human beings, and love for material like money can most often bring negative mental issues such as depression, bad marriage, and one-dimensional thought of how to enjoy life.

Let’s start with the first form of love of each other, this is a very common form of love that we see present in society. Based on my knowledge loving each other is a perfect form of love, because it sets you up with responsibilities, goals, aspirations for you and your partner to aim and to achieve together as one. This way you start creating an unbreakable bond that leads to the spontaneous emotion of love. With love, you feel invincible and at another level of enlightenment in your heart. Love can heal and reignite your desire to display the best version of yourself that is worthy to have a partner to spend one’s life with. Love can also help renew your moral compass as a human being with the help of guidance from your partner. Love gives you an adventure with your partner that can prove to make you feel alive, acknowledged, brings meaning and purpose to your life, and happiness. Love makes you feel accomplished and ambitious in not worrying about what you want to do, but wholeheartedly to pour and commit in your ambition together. With the accomplishments, you want to genuinely share them with one another. This is what leads one down the road of greatness and faith in the relationship with the partner to keep forging ahead with help and guidance. Lastly, this love can bring out your true self and you lead a healthy and positive lifestyle.

Love of self is a factor that happens before the love of each other. This love is the most important form of love as it creates one’s moral compass, personality, the gaze of how society views you, and what type of human being you are as an individual. This form of love amplifies the persona you leave on other people around you that may like you as a friend or even more as a lover. Love can help show that you are a caring, positive, confident, and happy individual who loves the company of other people. However, this can be reversed if you are a quiet, shy, and introvert it can be hard or a challenge to make friends due to your personality or nature. Love of self can also avoid a variety of mental illnesses such as depression, self-isolation, anxiety-disorder, and etc. With these disorders, you are far less likely to lead a healthy active lifestyle as a human being. Adding to this love can play a major role in these aspects of yourself in moulding into what type of a human being you become. Love yourself it is the best thing that can ever happen to us, it can make us happy and caring.

Love of aesthetic is the last form of love because it is the love of “stuff” this stuff can be anything but it is tangible in nature. This love can be the catastrophe because it can lead to divorces, isolation, one-dimensional thought of just working, and this can also lead to depression, and suicide ideation. This love is an unhealthy form of love in my opinion. However, I may be wrong because this love can also help the foster love of self, and through this form of love, you could potentially find a relationship with another human being. This love can somewhat connect to other two love but it’s not that common just so you guys understand this fact.

Love & Compassion are necessaties, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.

——–Dalai Lama

Therefore lack of love can cause a lot of mental health issues because as a fact we as human beings seek each other as a way of completing us as individuals and that can only be done with love. As mentioned that there are three types of loves: love of fellow human beings, love of self, and love of aesthetics.

Time

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Time is a series of fleeting moments of our experiences, but yet its pressure burdens us in our everyday lives. It is intriguing to dissect time and to find the answers as to why time has become our master and us its slaves. I feel that, if we let time dictate our path, we become machines, thus inhibiting us from truly enjoying the opportunities and the joy that life gives us. The comfort that we experience in life helps each of us live our life to the fullest. Bad experiences and good experiences are both groundbreaking foundations of our being and our reality we experience. Through a gaming perspective, one would think that reality is a video game that has an open-world concept with a slice-of-life factor and bunch of other factors mixed into it. Many people are bored with the everyday life that they are leading, but finding a rhythm to what your purpose in life is; that is when everything comes into perspective. Then time becomes nothing but a unit to our existence as we go on in enjoying our lives. Yet, if there is more to time and life than just leading them – like we have been leading them since our evolution – then I would like to understand that. I know that time has become a defining fact to our existence, but I feel that it is naive to think that there is not much to do but carry on our day-to-day life. That is surviving rather than enjoying life. Never let people constrict you in doing what you want to do because at the end of the day it comes down to individual decisions rather than a joint decision because you are the master of your destiny. Though time is an intangible unit, we can feel it through ageing and constant discovery of ourselves through experiences.

Time is a constant variable throughout our lives, but it also tells us that we only get one chance at it, hence best not to waste it, but to embrace the connections and the people that are around you, to be honest it can get kind of hard to do that, because of our commitments that we set for ourselves day-to-day in hopes of our character growing. Looking through a gaming perspective again, we can keep playing the same character without it ageing, and if it dies, it respawns from our saved point, which abolishes the constraint of time being a factor for the character. It is important to understand that time is, in a sense, wasted when playing games like that; however, we find it entertaining and also helps our mind with being tactful rather than using for creativity. That does not mean games do not use creative side either. In fact, on the contrary, taking your time to invent novel solutions to problems allows us to be creative and therefore allows us to conceptualize the inner fury of our passion within our soul. Time is an important factor throughout our lives as beings of evolution.

Lastly, I want to end this by stating that time is a luxury as well as important in developing one’s peace of mind and also sharing the joy of life with people around you. Time helps gamers create creative perspectives of survival while playing the game in reality as well as virtually.

Over time, the games play can change how we think and what we’re capable of. And it is easy to maximize the benefits so the changes are positive.

— Jane McGonigal