Loves’ definition in my dictionary means that one attains the strength in seeing and making one happy and supporting oneself or a loved one to rise when they fall. Love can come in many forms, such as the love of human beings, love of self, and love of aesthetics. These forms of love can help one grow, learn to love each other, which strengthens bonds between other human beings, and love for material like money can most often bring negative mental issues such as depression, bad marriage, and one-dimensional thought of how to enjoy life.

Let’s start with the first form of love of each other, this is a very common form of love that we see present in society. Based on my knowledge loving each other is a perfect form of love, because it sets you up with responsibilities, goals, aspirations for you and your partner to aim and to achieve together as one. This way you start creating an unbreakable bond that leads to the spontaneous emotion of love. With love, you feel invincible and at another level of enlightenment in your heart. Love can heal and reignite your desire to display the best version of yourself that is worthy to have a partner to spend one’s life with. Love can also help renew your moral compass as a human being with the help of guidance from your partner. Love gives you an adventure with your partner that can prove to make you feel alive, acknowledged, brings meaning and purpose to your life, and happiness. Love makes you feel accomplished and ambitious in not worrying about what you want to do, but wholeheartedly to pour and commit in your ambition together. With the accomplishments, you want to genuinely share them with one another. This is what leads one down the road of greatness and faith in the relationship with the partner to keep forging ahead with help and guidance. Lastly, this love can bring out your true self and you lead a healthy and positive lifestyle.

Love of self is a factor that happens before the love of each other. This love is the most important form of love as it creates one’s moral compass, personality, the gaze of how society views you, and what type of human being you are as an individual. This form of love amplifies the persona you leave on other people around you that may like you as a friend or even more as a lover. Love can help show that you are a caring, positive, confident, and happy individual who loves the company of other people. However, this can be reversed if you are a quiet, shy, and introvert it can be hard or a challenge to make friends due to your personality or nature. Love of self can also avoid a variety of mental illnesses such as depression, self-isolation, anxiety-disorder, and etc. With these disorders, you are far less likely to lead a healthy active lifestyle as a human being. Adding to this love can play a major role in these aspects of yourself in moulding into what type of a human being you become. Love yourself it is the best thing that can ever happen to us, it can make us happy and caring.

Love of aesthetic is the last form of love because it is the love of “stuff” this stuff can be anything but it is tangible in nature. This love can be the catastrophe because it can lead to divorces, isolation, one-dimensional thought of just working, and this can also lead to depression, and suicide ideation. This love is an unhealthy form of love in my opinion. However, I may be wrong because this love can also help the foster love of self, and through this form of love, you could potentially find a relationship with another human being. This love can somewhat connect to other two love but it’s not that common just so you guys understand this fact.

Love & Compassion are necessaties, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.

——–Dalai Lama

Therefore lack of love can cause a lot of mental health issues because as a fact we as human beings seek each other as a way of completing us as individuals and that can only be done with love. As mentioned that there are three types of loves: love of fellow human beings, love of self, and love of aesthetics.